Wow! A Mother is the maiden head of the family and as such many Head-ties(not just the physical Ones) rest strongly on her Head.
The Proverb, 'like Mother like daughter', is not real or a fact until both parties especially the mother major it so. Yep, the family is built on the male and father but i tell you it can't achieve maximum potential without the female and mother- You can check diverse Statistics to verify.
And as regards Matrimony the Mother is a very vital Insignia in its Course. A Female can't say that she is a mother until the person she mothered had bear fruits:good ones preferably.
So it's not your given birth to your Child that automatically makes you a Mother, nope, your duties makes you solidly One.
It's believed that it's not the day a Child pass his Examination Successfully that he began to read and study, so also in matrimony. If your knows and exhibits these Virtues, you as a Mother will be always Proud of her, so also her Husband and Children.
The first vital secrets mothers should bequeath to their daughter(s) is that Marital-relations doesn't strive in an atmosphere of societal pressure and that only the right priority could make it stand all weathers.
Yep, being a Mother you're experienced in matters as relating to your family more than your Child and here you offer your constructed ideas to better her life(starting from Childhood Stage).
Secondly, Be Decent and Neat. No marriage can have even its foundation wrought in dirtiness.
Number Three Secrets is that of Being A Good Cooking Expert. Not necessarily to eat, nope, every lady can eat but not every lady can cook wonderfully, so teach your Female Child to cook well nutritious food.
A Man's heart could be hindered by little things like nice nourishing food, you may be shocked!
Number Four secrets is that their body is not meant for sinful orchaestrated desires, lust etc. Knowing fully well that God dwells in you is a sure proving fact to this thesis.
The Fifth cryptical truth you should bequeath to your Child is that to have a worthwhile Successful relationship, trust must be added in strong quality not quantity. It takes two who trust each other to bond without any side effects whatsoever.
Sixthly, Employ wisdom and understanding in all you do, including marital relations. The Husband is the Head of the family while, the Wife is the Chief helper(helpmeet) of the family. She hides under her Husband.
There's cogent protection in family life whether you like it or not and only the family life built on these important virtues will stand all weathers of life.
The Seventh secret to marital bliss is -Showcase love and respect to your Inlaws and other important persons of worth.
Whether you like it or not, your Husbands' mother remains his mother, vice-versa. Humility can take you where beauty and or money may never throw you to. Your home is in your hands. If it breaks, you're the cause, vice-versa.
Eight Secret is-Have a nice Self-esteem and be confident always. Being Bold is no sin. A Woman who's bold will go places where her contemporaries will not dare go. In fact, your duty as a mother calls for boldness!
It takes a bold Woman who's humble to direct her husband the right way - All the path to the very Top.
And lastly, Marriage has no outlet called Divorce. Yep, once you're in, you're in- Any mistake should be endured.
This Institution doesn't call for giving up(getting tired, disappointed etc) but to forgive again and again. When you know that no one is perfect, with diverse flaws here and there, you tend to see things differently and in the sure way of seeing things.
In recapitulation, i will pendown by saying that your life today is a fruit of what you did yester-years and your acts today determines whether such circumstances(whether good or bad) will continue or dissipate.
And i tell you that, dressing seductive even in our world of lawlessness is something you shouldn't practice.
And everyone attracts his likes. If you dress seductively, you will encounter Rapists, Arm robbers, Thugs, Kidnappers, Ritualist etc -hey, it's the law of Nature.
What you sow is what you reap, so be careful of what you say, do and or think - Be cautious. Dress moderately since you're already beautiful. God never creates anything ugly. He creates things beautiful in His own time.
Peer pressures, Environmental factors shouldn't becloud your thinking. Retrace your footstep now!
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