Awesome! Tasteful! Our precious list here is something very sensitive and heart blowing! Even though i ain't married yet, these skunks are real 'NOs', i want in every sordid love relationship!
With differ ransacks and informs gathering from mature folks who from their lives and words known and unknown to them gave me facts that's so real you can't style it off or you meet some world heavy weight championed 'Dark Rocks' of life, i have decided to share rare truths with you.
You know, the more informs about how much you engage in copulation in marriage, how much you be this and that in your matrimony, all i see is negative orgies springing forth!
Everyone has become intelligent, smart, independent, bossy-Well that's Smart Guy in taking Drugs-All you get is-DRUG RESISTANCE AT THE TIME YOU NEEDED IT MOST! Okay! That's just a preamble actually,-And of course i ain't defining Divorce in this chapter(not when we've got infants patrolling the net sites nowadays-(laughs).
Anyway, let's talk about the first causes of Divorce. Are you pumpingly ready? Sporadic! Let's do some dancing here! Please don't try some moves greater than your power-Don't say i didn't warn ya'(laughs).
*BECAUSE PEOPLES' ORIGINAL PIECES ARE AROUND-AND THEY HAVE PEOPLES' PIECES IN THEM! Simple story-They aren't Original!
Well, for folks still thinking i am pouring jokes should know am in the 'CAUSES' already-Just in case. You may be asking yourself 'What is this Guy talking about?'-Don't worry you'll get the drift-Just stay afloat!
Okay, well have you heard about Premarital sex and post-marital sex? I know you do! And that's the regrets! You've heard but, you may not know the implications!
See, even the worst disease contacted from such liason are just peanuts to what had happened to whoever crossed that sacred boundary! You see People walking down the streets misbahaving, being hostile, having wrong Spirits hovering around them and----nobody even notice sometimes!
People just concluded 'It's normal!'-Normal?! or 'That's how he behaves!-Behaves?! I think you should ask such victims who they were five years ago and you'll get some pictures that'll shock you!
See, once you have sexual relations with anyone, you immediately give out a very precious gem to your partner and he/she gives you his/her precious gem-Most times, those gems because of the conditions it took place, tends to be Negative!
Okay, you're confuse? No problem! I've got a real life practical-You go home and check your parents or any married peoples' portrait and see if there isn't some resemblance! I'll like to see your comments please!
Now, that's captured because they are married-What if your Partners are scattered around cities and nations?-You got that! Thank God!
And that's why People who sex before matrimony tends to cheat more faster than those who married a virgin! Sex is an experience-And it could range from horrible to wonderful!
Now, am not against you as a Person(don't get me wrong) but, a fact remains a fact! And that's why a young Lady/Guy or even advanced Women/Men(with this history) tends to look for external satisfaction outside since they crave for that experience and everyone knows the end product of that first act-DIVORCE!
The Number Two causes is-
*NEGATIVE FRIENDS INTRUSION AND NON-CURTAIL-ABILITY. Actually, 'Show me your friend and i'll show you what and who you are' syndrome is also at work in marital relations.
And that's why Women(mostly) are advised to refrain from talking about the sexual romp of their husband with their fellow friends since, some of those friends are Devil incarnates-So keen is the sensibility of the Woman that it's too blind to wake a candle!
It's quite a calculated mystery on the part of the enemy and that's really disgusting! I'll advise all ladies to be careful-There is Power beyond mere words!
Now, the disaster coming out of such wrong mixture can't be imagined!-I believe folks reading this have gripped meanings-even ones not written here but communicated.
The Third Branch is-
*TOO MUCH EXPECTATION ON THE SIDES OF BOTH/ONE PARTY(IES). Humans are progressive beings-meaning that we all makes mistakes-The diverse environment we came from is also some major factor.
At Matrimony, two People with differ customs, upbringing etc choose to tie the knot together. Each of the couples have differ needs and wants and that's why knowing your others' important desires is Super Important!
The Misunderstanding caused by lack of asking questions is rough, it always in the case of matrimony ends in Divorce.
Number Four Causes is-
*EMBRACING THE TOO-MUCH SIEGE OF PERFECTION-ABILITY. Now, nobody is perfect! Matrimony isn't a strong field to insult your better Queen or King-Correction in love is right and normal but, it should be that way since you're inside the lock door now.
Marriage is a lock door only God can unlock and such unlocking always results in one party going home-That's to show how important it is!
This World is too not-perfect to rely on our own kind of perfection! Sure, we've got a diverse Traditions and Norms(especially, if it's from differ back grounded Spouses) but, that's all- See, we're only perfect in Christ but, we're walking and working to perfection-Meaning that laziness is not some part of it.
Know that you can't change someone's personality but, only mindset.
Fifth One is-DEMONIC MANIFESTATION.
Yep! The spiritual always controls the physical! And that's why promiscuous Men and Women(Sorry to say) even, when leaving with nice spouses-Elegant ones and godly ones-because of the too much numerous demons, they had accumulated from differ Sexes and place they still commit Extra-marital relations-Sometimes on their Matrimonial Bed! It's not Normal!
Some of them are the ones that rapes little girls and boys today-It's not normal! They have gone somewhere and gotten inflicted.
Even when they are arrested, they can become homosexual or lesbian inside the cell to tell you how serious it is!
The number sixth Toxic cause is-
PLACE SQUARE PEGS IN ROUND HOLES!
Of course, such is Disastrous! And that's why you need to know who and what you're marrying before matrimony-At least, your courtship period was some space, some learning platform.
If you're wild, don't go and marry someone who's cool and start complaining latter that he/she isn't giving you the drive you always crave, not after your agreeing to say, 'I Do'-That's what i call open eyed inflicted bondage!
And Secondly, know who your Spouse is, A Male thinks and behaves differ from a Female and that's-The Whole Truth! Nothing can change that! Our God wasn't wicked/made mistake when he made Man Man and Woman Woman!
And lastly, The Seventh Toxic causes of Divorce is-
IGNORING SPIRITUAL AND PHYSICAL PROMPTINGS UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE. We all should know that Divorce doesn't hit the rock suddenly, No! It comes gradually.
Now, when Divorce is drawing nearer, the Couple will most times feel a wild detach from each other(and that could span 0 months to more than a decade.)
The Holy Spirit in you could have been passing differ messages to you but, you may have been ignoring it until 'GBAM!' disaster strikes!
Other times physical signs creeps in and revulsion and sudden hates tiptoes instead of Love and understanding.
Late nights, raging news here and there, Emotional and Psychological coldness from either partners. So start praying for any relationship(including love related ones), before you involve in such!
DIvorce is not GOD's perfect will for you-No! CHRIST who we imitate can't and won't Divorce The Church(His Bride!) He's forever married to the Church, your Marriage(future or now) can be secured!
It can be maintained-The Key is-GO BACK TO YOUR FIRST LOVE FOR GOD! Kneel down and set your mind on Christ! If you need JESUS CHRIST in your life, say this after me, "LORD JESUS i am a Sinner, forgive me my sins, wash me with your precious blood, save me today. I take you as my Savior and Lord, i believe you were raise from the dead, thank you LORD, in JESUS' name Amen."
Congratulations! If you've confessed this words with your mouth and believe in your heart, then am really pleased to welcome you to the family of God.
Find the closest Bible believing and teaching Church in your area and join therein to improve your life everywhere! Stay Safe!
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